By Nicole Ouellette • November 11, 2008 • About Me • 6 Comments

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I was sad to see on the news this morning that a boat capsized on Maine lake this past weekend, killing two of four men who were in it. It seems like a bizarre parallel coincidence but it was upon hearing this that I realized how far I've come this year. The families involved are in my thoughts. It has become less about my grief, and for that I am relieved.

Today is the one year anniversary of my father's death. He drowned when a boat he was in with three of his friends capsized on Maine lake. He was 51 years old and I miss him every day. This experience has dramatically shaped my life and made me more aware of the human condition and the suffering of other people.

I think it might be easier today if I continue with my normal routine rather than take the day off, in part because the there is a lot to do this week but also because that's what he would've wanted me to do.

So expect Too Cute Tuesday post later today. My crafts often drove my father crazy, and I don't see the point of stopping now.

About Nicole Ouellette

Nicole runs Breaking Even Communications, an internet marketing company in Bar Harbor Maine. When she's not online, she enjoys walking her short dog, cooking with bacon, and trying to be outdoorsy in Acadia National Park.

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Michelle

Hi Cole, It was strange to read the news article, but it certainly gives you a sense of where we were compared to where we are. Becomes less about us, and more of a sense of compassion for them. We have come a long way. I’m thinking about you today…I really think deep down Dad loved your crafts, he did participate in them after all. Mom and I were talking the other day about the human body project the two of you did…hardly Too Cute Tuesday but certainly a funny experience. Take care Cole, call if you want to talk. I love you!
http://www.becoming-whole.com meg wolff

I’m sorry to hear about your Dad. I remembered you had mentioned that he had passed, but not that he had died in a boating accident. Hugs.
Kim

Hey Kiddo,
That’s the first thing I saw the paper this morning, I thought of all of us.. I miss him daily myself, today is a tough one but this too shall pass… Life is good.
http://livingtheroadlesstraveled.blogspot.com/ Jodi

I immediately thought of you and that horrible day when I saw it on the news Sunday night.
Thinking of you on what I’m sure must be an extremely difficult day. (HUGS)
Robby

Hi Nic,
I was thinking of you guys today, as well as the other people who were involved in that other boating accident. Its weird how something terrible like that would happen again a year after. Your dad would be proud of your crafts… I for one am very fond of your ducktape wallet craft from weeks past. Take care and Love you lots!
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A big *hug* We all love you!